A closet full of clothes and nothing to wear... I'm not sure if men suffer from that dilemma, but every woman I know does from time to time.
These long hot summer days bring their own special challenges, particularly if you hike to a distant parking lot twice a day. "It's good exercise" I remind myself, as I wade through the waves of simmering heat reflecting off the city pavement.
If the dog days of August tempt you to throw on that cute sun dress or tank top for work, I'm sorry to say it's probably not a good idea. We've all heard the "dress for success" speeches and read articles on how to dress for a job interview, but sometimes it appears, we just can't quite bring ourselves to believe that it really matters.
I was recently reminded that indeed, It does.
Within the past couple of months I've attended meetings where the main topic of post-adjournment conversation among both men and women was how one or more of the attendees was dressed. Primarily the discussions centered around a couple of young women. Both are attractive, educated and knowledgeable. Both were wearing sleeveless, scoop-neck tank tops.
The men discussed, well let's just say they were having a very tough time remembering anything that was said. The women were torn between amusement at the folly of youth, and embarrassment. Their comments leaned toward "what were they thinking" and "how is anyone supposed to take them seriously when they show up for work dressed for the beach."
In fairness to the Britney/Paris generation, some of us in the Farrah/Cher generation don't do much better.
People do make assessments of your competence and character based on what they can see. It may not be fair, but it's a fact. Dress accordingly.
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